Saturday, 8 March 2014
PHOTO OF THE DAY
Tuesday, 4 March 2014
This is a cultural practice at Aladja Town,Delta State.It is called "irhen re' eyara".It is a triennial event.CENTENNIAL CELEBRATIONS: NIGERIA AND SEVENTH-DAY ADVENTIST CELEBRATE.
The year
1914 is a historical one for many a Nigerian especially those of the
Seventh-day Adventist faith. That year was the year the Southern and Northern
protectorates were amalgamated to give birth to the country called Nigeria.
Same year witnessed the arrival of the Seventh-Day Adventism on Nigerian soil.
Nigeria was amalgamated by Lord Fredric Lugard while Seventh-Day Adventism was
brought to Nigeria by Evangelist Babcock.
Babcock first
arrived at Erumu in Western Nigeria where he preached the Adventist brand of Christianity
which was, at the time, strange to many Nigerians. With God on his side he got
some converts who joined him in the spread of the new found faith. Evangelist
Babcock faced much opposition, especially from fellow Christian groups who felt
Seventh-Day Adventists were misleading the people. Today, Babcock University,
one of the best Institutions of Higher Learning in Nigeria and other
institutions of health by the Church stand as a testimony to the doggedness of
Evangelist Babcock in propagating the gospel of Christ in Nigeria.
The seed
that was planted in 1914 has bore a lot of fruits and has given birth to many
branches, Conferences and Union Missions all over the country.
Speaking at
Aladja Church, Delta Conference, Elder Humphrey A. Osiobe said he is happy to
be a Seventh-Day Adventist especially at this time of its centennial
celebration which coincided with that of Nigeria. He prayed God to grant the
country peace at this time of .her history.
Eld. Osiobe
used the occasion to welcome the General Conference President of the
Seventh-Day Adventist Church worldwide, Pastor Ted N. Wilson, to Nigeria. He urged
all Seventh-Day Adventists to come out enmass to celebrate the epoch event. And
that while celebrating the event Adventists must not loss sight of the ultimate
prize which is heaven. Eld. Osiobe congratulated members of the church on the
centennial celebration.
Monday, 3 March 2014
POLICE ARREST FOUR ROBBERY SUSPECT
The Nigeria Police Force,Delta State Command have arrested
four
suspected armed robbers and recover fire arms from them on Monday
March 3,2014.
The State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Celestina
Kalu dropped the hint while parading the suspects at the Area Command
in Warri.
Celestina Kalu said the suspects numbering four robbed one Mrs. Ekpesu
Celestina of her Honda CRV car with Registration Number BZ115RSH along
Chevron Clinic Road opposite DBS,Warri at about 6:00am on 1/3/2014
noting that a crack team of detectives from the Area Commander's
office, Warri at about 9:30am on 2nd, March,2014 saw and suspected the
vehicle along Warri -Sapele road,Warri. She said the team immediately
contacted policemen at a nearby check point where the vehicle was
eventually stopped for routine check and three men John Samuel
Johnson Rarire (Driver),Ovinne Ikweki and Garba Mohammed were arrested
with the vehicle. The force image maker said on interrogation alleged
that the suspects confessed to the armed robbery and previous armed
robbery cases within Warri and its environs. She also hinted that the
suspects led the team of detectives to Owhawha Village where they
identified one Emmanuel America as a member of the gang and was
promptly arrested. Items recovered from Emmanuel America include
one double barrel gun with Batch No.FSA13276,one dagger, various charms
and three single barrel locally made guns.
She said the owner of the Honda CRV,Mrs.Ekpesu Celestina has
identified her vehicle which the hoodlums robbed her at gun
point. While calling on the general public to help the police with
useful information in other to ensure the safety of lives and
properties, DSP Celestina Kalu noted that investigation is in progress
while efforts to track down other members of the gang are on adding that the
suspects will soon be charged to court. One of the suspect, Emmanuel America ,happened to be the Vigilante
Chairman of Owhawha Community in Ughelli South Local Government Area. Emmanuel America who spoke to newsmen
said he his friend, Samuel Johnson Rarire whom he had known for over
ten years came to him from Lagos State that he should prepare a
charm (gun protection) for him to get work noting that he has been
sacked from his place of work. According to America, the mistake he
made was his "failure to ask Samuel what he wants to use the charm
for". America noted that he welcomed the police with the hope that
they have come to pick him to join them for an operation only for him
to be told that he is under arrest. He told the police that he knows
Samuel Johnson Rarhire very well.
Samuel Johnson Rarire who is the driver said this is his first time of
embarking on a robbery operation noting that he went to Emmanuel
America to prepare a charm "gun protection" to enable him get
a job.
Another of the suspect,Ovinneh Ikweki who claimed to be a welder
denied that he had ever been in the business of armed robbery noting
that his connection with the robbery syndicate is "I was travelling to
Benin-City when they stopped to give me lift from Warri to Benin". On
our way going,the police stopped the vehicle and in the process, we
were all arrested.
In a swift reaction to his claims,Samuel Johnson Ararie said he
and Ovinneh Ikweki have been friends for over ten years saying that
they went together for the operation.
suspected armed robbers and recover fire arms from them on Monday
March 3,2014.
The State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Celestina
Kalu dropped the hint while parading the suspects at the Area Command
in Warri.
Celestina Kalu said the suspects numbering four robbed one Mrs. Ekpesu
Celestina of her Honda CRV car with Registration Number BZ115RSH along
Chevron Clinic Road opposite DBS,Warri at about 6:00am on 1/3/2014
noting that a crack team of detectives from the Area Commander's
office, Warri at about 9:30am on 2nd, March,2014 saw and suspected the
vehicle along Warri -Sapele road,Warri. She said the team immediately
contacted policemen at a nearby check point where the vehicle was
eventually stopped for routine check and three men John Samuel
Johnson Rarire (Driver),Ovinne Ikweki and Garba Mohammed were arrested
with the vehicle. The force image maker said on interrogation alleged
that the suspects confessed to the armed robbery and previous armed
robbery cases within Warri and its environs. She also hinted that the
suspects led the team of detectives to Owhawha Village where they
identified one Emmanuel America as a member of the gang and was
promptly arrested. Items recovered from Emmanuel America include
one double barrel gun with Batch No.FSA13276,one dagger, various charms
and three single barrel locally made guns.
She said the owner of the Honda CRV,Mrs.Ekpesu Celestina has
identified her vehicle which the hoodlums robbed her at gun
point. While calling on the general public to help the police with
useful information in other to ensure the safety of lives and
properties, DSP Celestina Kalu noted that investigation is in progress
while efforts to track down other members of the gang are on adding that the
suspects will soon be charged to court. One of the suspect, Emmanuel America ,happened to be the Vigilante
Chairman of Owhawha Community in Ughelli South Local Government Area. Emmanuel America who spoke to newsmen
said he his friend, Samuel Johnson Rarire whom he had known for over
ten years came to him from Lagos State that he should prepare a
charm (gun protection) for him to get work noting that he has been
sacked from his place of work. According to America, the mistake he
made was his "failure to ask Samuel what he wants to use the charm
for". America noted that he welcomed the police with the hope that
they have come to pick him to join them for an operation only for him
to be told that he is under arrest. He told the police that he knows
Samuel Johnson Rarhire very well.
Samuel Johnson Rarire who is the driver said this is his first time of
embarking on a robbery operation noting that he went to Emmanuel
America to prepare a charm "gun protection" to enable him get
a job.
Another of the suspect,Ovinneh Ikweki who claimed to be a welder
denied that he had ever been in the business of armed robbery noting
that his connection with the robbery syndicate is "I was travelling to
Benin-City when they stopped to give me lift from Warri to Benin". On
our way going,the police stopped the vehicle and in the process, we
were all arrested.
In a swift reaction to his claims,Samuel Johnson Ararie said he
and Ovinneh Ikweki have been friends for over ten years saying that
they went together for the operation.
SEXUAL FULFILLMENT: WHAT DOES IT TAKE?
Love, sex, and marriage without the relational emphasis are just the sexual act; they leave people empty, dissatisfied, and feeling guilty.
This explains just one reason why pornography (even apart from the terrible psychological addiction), is so destructive: it delivers a momentary, addictive pleasure without the core dimension of intimacy.
It’s very unfortunate that a good number of married couples are not married. Even when you think they are close, there is no sexual intimacy. A good number of married people, especially women, now see sex as hard work. For you to call someone your spouse, there are four questions that must never be overlooked in every aspect of your life:
How do you communicate with him or her?
How caring are you towards each other?
How committed are you to each other?
Do you share common values?
We often want to act like these things are not necessary only to find out when it is late that they are very necessary. Whichever area of your relationship- spiritual, emotional, and sexual; these questions should be answered. When you have successfully answered these questions, you can confidently talk about intimacy with your spouse.
Let us look at each of the above questions with sexual intimacy in mind. Don’t be deceived, that you have the energy to bang her forever doesn’t mean you are good at it. That you have a very big penis doesn’t mean you know what you are doing; the size doesn’t always matter.
Communication allows difficult topics to be openly discussed. Frustration accumulates when a husband and/ or wife are not able to communicate about problems, desires, fears, or a host of other regularly unspoken issues that impact their sexual experience. I know some of us, because of our upbringing, are so timid that we can’t discuss sex with our spouse but that is not what it should be. Some women suffer from frigidity due to past experiences and unresolved anger and that is a great hindrance to their enjoying sex and intimacy. If you love her, you must get her to that level where she can let it out even if tears flow. You must assure her of your love. Assuring a woman of your love is not about speaking all the love words; show it. If there are issues you have with her, don’t keep it to yourself; let it out. Some men send me messages lamenting over the foul smell that oozes out of madam’s vagina during sex. I know how you feel; no sane man enjoys that. But your wife is your best friend and so you should be able to respectfully and lovingly discuss that with her and find solution together. You can even talk to your family gynaecologist about it before talking to her.
Communication does it and this takes us to the next question-Care. You will go out of your way to seek solution to things that bother your spouse. You won’t just fold your hands and watch her go through it because you know she is a matured woman who can handle her problems. You show how much you care when you can go and book appointment for her to see the doctor, offer to take her there, find out what the problem is and lend a helping hand without hurting her ego.
Caring for your partner means providing him/her with the sexual experience on his/her terms, way, and time frame. A husband caring for his wife might mean he focuses on slow and gentle caresses, speaking of her beauty and his love for her, practicing giving a full body massage, or perhaps giving her a weekend gate away at a live-in spa. When you care for her sexually; when you cherish that intimacy with her, you will not rush in and out of sex because you know that sex means a different thing to real women.
Madam, because you care about your husband, you will shave clean your southern hemisphere if that is what he wants without those excuses of itching after shaving because there are things to do to avoid the rashes and itching. You should keep it neat and well trimmed if he wants some hairs there. If you care about your husband, you will let go of that anger in you and open up to him. You will give it to him however and whenever he wants it without excuses.
Because you care for him or her, you will be committed to whatever it is that will make your spouse feel better. Commitment to sexual intimacy in marriage involves doing what is necessary to achieve it, and eliminating whatever is necessary that impedes it. Commitment also translates into time: you must prioritize your time for sex since busyness is one factor that always gets in the way. Sir, it is wrong to take that call while you are in bed with your spouse. Don’t tell me that is the money you use to take care of her. We existed happily before GSM came; we did business with landlines and so switching it off for one hour won’t kill you.
Never forget that for you to achieve intimacy with your spouse, foreplay must never be ignored. It is the preparation phase of lovemaking, the art of foreplay shouldn’t be underestimated; classically for women, it’s the best part! It is here that intimacy is at a climax, and wives are most enjoying sexual closeness.
The importance of the art of foreplay is understood when men take time well beforehand to focus on building an atmosphere of rest, relaxation, and romance. Removing distractions, stresses, and interruptions allows the woman to enjoy intimacy: the key component of sex. As a master violinist plays his instrument to a climax of musical beauty, so a husband plays his wife’s body, ever so gently, ever so skilfully, to bring her to crescendos of orgasmic splendour. If you can’t play her body exceptionally well after years together, there is a problem somewhere.
Mind you; Foreplay must begin long before you are actually in the bedroom. You can’t shout at her all day and then expect her to do the magic at night. You can’t be living carelessly without providing for her and then expect her to respond very well to you. Women are emotional beings.
Okay; let me give you some tips to help you with your foreplay. But don’t ever forget this saying: Women are like Slow-Cookers, Men are Like Microwaves. Foreplay is not about getting you sexually gratified—it’s all about preparing your wife for the enjoyments of sexual intimacy. Your ultimate goal is your wife’s satisfaction.
Spend plenty of time kissing gently and gradually more passionately. In kissing her body parts- neck, cheeks, lips, face, please don’t mess up her body with saliva. A good number of women hate that but may never tell you. You can make her feel good without rubbing saliva all over her body.
Giving a full body massage will help her relax and the physical touch will create a special measure of intimacy. While you do this, don’t forget to compliment her body verbally.
Give at least 20 minutes of time to foreplay. (You will find that your orgasms are more intense after this extended time of preparation for lovemaking)
Just remember, the most beautiful experience on earth should not be rushed. Foreplay is meant to be fun, so take time and enjoy each other.
Discover what parts of your wife’s body are sensitive to touch and will stimulate her sexually. Areas might include: lips, neck, breasts, nipples, tummy, back, buttocks, and thighs. Obviously, some of these areas will be pleasurable during foreplay—-others won’t be, so ask.
When your wife is sufficiently stimulated (after 20 minutes of foreplay), begin gentle stimulation of the clitoris. Every woman is different to some degree, so ask her how it feels and make sure stimulation remains pleasurable for her. Use a side-to-side motion with the three middle fingers of your hand to rub the clitoris; ensure there is plenty of lubrication, and that there is just the right amount of pressure on the clitoris.
Women have two areas that provide sexual pleasure (erogenous zones): the clitoris and the vagina
Clitoris: this is the only organ whose sole purpose is to provide sexual pleasure! The areas around the clitoris are highly sensitive; extended foreplay and then stimulation of this area will produce orgasms.
Vagina: the inner area of the vagina is the most sensitive. There is a spot that has caused some confusion over the years, called the g-spot. The g-spot is a zone about two or three inches inside the vagina on the front wall, closest to the clitoris or pubic bone. When aroused, the area swells with blood and becomes rough and raised. This area responds to pressure (not touch), and so deep massaging is the best way to produce an orgasm.
Madam, you can also get him to enjoy you more by doing some of these
Wear sexy lingerie
Whisper into his ear
Use some good massage oil
Check the scent that stimulates him; vanilla does it for so many men
Send him erotic texts during the day
Show him your back side
Apply pressure to his buttocks and thighs
Run your fingers through his hair
Allow your hair or breasts to stroke his penis
Look into his eyes while telling him you love him
Wear one of his shirts
Gently play with his scrotum
Choose a different room or location for lovemaking
Don’t make having an orgasm your goal. If you do, both you and your spouse will begin lovemaking with this expectation set up that you are trying to reach. Instead, make the goal the experience of making your spouse feel cherished and loved.
The final point is common values. Intimacy will not be produced when values held by husband and wife are in conflict. This is why you should make sure these things are sorted out before marriage.
Enjoy your sex life; sex is good!
Saturday, 1 March 2014
FRANK AND VIVIAN HELD UGBOHA SPELLBOUND
FRANK AND VIVIAN HELD UGBOHA SPELLBOUND
Ugboha Community in Esan East Local Government Area of Edo
State
stood-still when Son of Mr.Thomas Odoh and popular Warri
Photographer,Frank Odoh traditionally picked former Miss Vivian
Momodu,Daughter of Mr.Akiti Momodu as wife. The two love birds are
both indigenes of Ugboha Community in Esan East Local Government Area
of Delta State.
The Groom Mr.Frank state his reasons for marrying his wife thus"I
married Vivian because I love her and because she is spiritually and
physically okay" just as he adviced bachelors to get a wife of their
choice for themselves. Vivian summed her reason for marrying Frank this way "I married Frank
because I want him to be my husband". She enjoined spinsters to be
prayerful and wait patiently on God for their husbands.
Elder Brother to the Bride, Mr. Matthew Momodu who described her as a
"good person" adviced the couple to love each other and put God first
in their marriage.
Mother of the Bride,Mrs. Margret Momodu adviced her Daughter, Vivian, to
always show respect to her husband as well as be homely to his family just as she
prayed for Good Children and the blessings of God upon their marriage.
Father of the Groom,Mr.Thomas Odoh adviced the couple to take care of
themselves and wished them God's protection in their marriage.
Mother of the Groom,Mrs.Juliana Odoh whose joy knows no bound prayed
that the couple stay forever noting that marriage is everlasting and
wished them God's blessings.
The ceremony which held Ugboha Community to a stand-still was
witnessed by Elders,Women and Youths of the Community. Guests were
served Esan Traditional meal "Ema and Ogbolor soup", assorted drinks
as well as jollof and stew rice.
Our Correspondent was at the grandeur event.
stood-still when Son of Mr.Thomas Odoh and popular Warri
Photographer,Frank Odoh traditionally picked former Miss Vivian
Momodu,Daughter of Mr.Akiti Momodu as wife. The two love birds are
both indigenes of Ugboha Community in Esan East Local Government Area
of Delta State.
The Groom Mr.Frank state his reasons for marrying his wife thus"I
married Vivian because I love her and because she is spiritually and
physically okay" just as he adviced bachelors to get a wife of their
choice for themselves. Vivian summed her reason for marrying Frank this way "I married Frank
because I want him to be my husband". She enjoined spinsters to be
prayerful and wait patiently on God for their husbands.
Elder Brother to the Bride, Mr. Matthew Momodu who described her as a
"good person" adviced the couple to love each other and put God first
in their marriage.
Mother of the Bride,Mrs. Margret Momodu adviced her Daughter, Vivian, to
always show respect to her husband as well as be homely to his family just as she
prayed for Good Children and the blessings of God upon their marriage.
Father of the Groom,Mr.Thomas Odoh adviced the couple to take care of
themselves and wished them God's protection in their marriage.
Mother of the Groom,Mrs.Juliana Odoh whose joy knows no bound prayed
that the couple stay forever noting that marriage is everlasting and
wished them God's blessings.
The ceremony which held Ugboha Community to a stand-still was
witnessed by Elders,Women and Youths of the Community. Guests were
served Esan Traditional meal "Ema and Ogbolor soup", assorted drinks
as well as jollof and stew rice.
Our Correspondent was at the grandeur event.
Photo Speak of the conjugal union of Mr. and Mrs. Odoh.
Photo Speak of the conjugal union of Mr. and Mrs. Odoh. May God bless this union with everything that is good.
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